I wonder if they know....

I have come to really wonder about people.  I know society has changed alot and that children aren't raised like they were 50 years ago, but what is the  deal? I wonder if they know how they look and sound sometimes.   Here are some of the things I have seen that baffle me.  Maybe you will be able to relate to one or more.

• Why do grown women need to take pictures with so much cleavage showing?  Not attractive...especially when you are already married and over 30.
• Do you realize what LMAO means?  Would you say that out loud....in front of your boss or mother?  Try using  LOL or LMBO instead.  Same idea, better for kids to read.
• In the workplace, do you realize the poor impression you make when you use foul language?  Anyone can use 4 letter words....be more creative.
• Have you realized yet that character is invaluable?  Develop it.  I have come to know several young adults that have so much of it and I am excited for their futures.  I know too many adults that have so little and their lives reflect this.  Try hard to be a good person and do the right things.  People are looking and habits are being developed.
• Who says you have to wait until you are  30 to get married?  Who says you have to marry the minute you graduate from college?  Whose business is it anyway when you make that choice?  If you have the Holy Spirit living in you...if you are a believer...God will provide the person and the time for you to meet that person if it is His will for you to marry.  I feel so much pressure for those single young women I know to do things on society's timetable.  Not ok...we are all designed differently.  God's path for each of us is different.
• In sporting competitions,  there are two types of people.  Those that have been molded into great atheletes with integrity and character and everyone else.  Good coaches teach students to honor the game and the other players.  Shake hands with the competition before and after a game.  If a player is hurt, take a knee and be quiet.  If you score, don't act like you just won the Super Bowl.  This is high school.  No one is as impressed as you are with yourself.
• Has anyone ever told you that confidence and cockiness are not the same thing?  Strength and confidence are attractive and magnetic.  Being cocky is quite the turn off for most people.  And do NOT refer to yourself in the 3rd person!!  
• Do you realize that gossip is like poison?  Be so careful as you share.  You do not know who may hear you , who they know,  if they will repeat it, or if it will be heard with the same feeling it was said.  Our tongues are so hurtful at times!

I think this is enough of a list for one night.  Feel free to discuss....
Be Blessed!!